I always need a victim, a dependent. First, a close relationship is built, which is called the period of the undertaking. The victim is showered with love, praise and gifts. The sadist behaves like the perfect match. The sadist recognizes exactly the wishes of the other, and met them in the first phase (time of initiation) After this first phase, the victim informed change requests (You are just as I imagine it, just a little thing is to change, but do not worry, I’ll bring the case!), It is bondage generated. The victim is now uncertain. The other is tortured mentally and / or physically. The sadist makes specific situations broken. There is a “cold-warm” strategy carried out. Victims not see through that, and keep getting yourself guilty. Go Parents with children sadistic in a way, is the ratio of children thereby severely disrupted for life. Is there a danger that the victim come off, so it is shielded from the environment and from friends. There occur certain isolation tactics in ******. All outside contacts are terminated by intrigues and lies friends are slandered.The sadist gives the victim the feeling that it can not live without him. There is fear aroused and the sadist presents itself as a panacea. These mechanisms also occur with prison guards and prisoners, between torturer and tortured, .. this also applies to children who have been abused by their parents. Many women in the refuge often return to the perpetrators, because they are afraid of being alone. The offender always provides peaceful situations. Sadistic parents ask often as a model represents and the children will not be believed that they are being mistreated. It makes sadists pleasure to prevail over feelings of others. They have the ability on the feelings of another reign (Charisma). The offender notices when the victim is in a good mood, then that is thoroughly spoiled. It prevents the victim progresses professionally (a good relationship is more important than a job) It’s own weakness is inserted (if you leave me, then I’ll kill myself) Sadists play people off against each other and intrigue Sadists have a stunning charm. Set it in order to look good to the caregivers of the victim, the victims will then often not believed. Fear Euro sufferers are ideal victims. They are incapable of having the time for a normal relationship. They have become accustomed to the hot and cold principle. The victim is then often no longer capable of love. In children whose parents are sadists, creates a Urmisstrauen. You can no longer believe in kindness without ulterior motives. You have to accept enormous difficulties gifts they take it to yet, so they feel obligated enormous.

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